Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Child Safety

The story surrounding the missing child from Kansas City, Missouri has captivated the news and the entire metropolitan area. Although these events are very rare, there may be a lot of parents out there asking themselves “How do I keep my child safe?”. A missing child is something no one would ever want to go through.

Although the following information from The National Center for Missing & Exploited Children may not be applicable to the current case in Kansas City, MO, due to the age of the child involved, it is good information. You may want to take this opportunity to speak with your children about safety.

The National Center for Missing & Exploited Children provides some of the following information on their website.

What are the most important things parents should tell children about safety?
1. Always check first with a parent, guardian, or trusted adult before going anywhere, accepting anything, or getting into a car with anyone.

2. Do not go out alone. Always take a friend with you when going places or playing outside.

3. Say no if someone tries to touch you, or treats you in a way that makes you feel sad, scared, or confused. Get out of the situation as quickly as possible.

4. Tell a parent, guardian, or trusted adult if you feel sad, scared, or confused.

5. There will always be someone to help you, and you have the right to be safe.

What should a parent know when talking to a child about safety?
1. Don’t forget your older children. Children aged 11 to17 are equally at risk for victimization. At the same time you are giving your older children more freedom, make sure they understand important safety rules as well.

2. Speak to your children in a manner that is calm and reassuring. Children do not need to be frightened to get the point across. In fact, fear can thwart the safety message, because fear can be paralyzing to a child.

3. Speak openly. Children will be less likely to come to you about issues enshrouded in secrecy. If they feel that you are comfortable discussing the subject at hand, they may be more forthcoming.

4. Do not teach “stranger danger.” Children do not have the same understanding of “strangers” as adults; the concept is difficult for them to grasp. And, based on what we know about those who harm children, people known to children and/or their families’ actually present greater danger to children than do “strangers.”

5. Practice what you preach. You may think your children understand your message, but until they can incorporate it into their daily lives, it may not be clearly understood. Find opportunities to practice “what if” scenarios. Teach your children that safety is more important than manners. In other words, it is more important for children to get themselves out of a dangerous situation than it is to be polite.



For more information, click the following link to go the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children website.

missingkids.com